Question 1

Am I a bad mum because I have an addiction?

Accepted Answer

No. Addiction is an illness, not a character flaw or a verdict on the kind of mother you are. Plenty of loving, devoted mothers have struggled with it. Reaching for help is not failing your children, it is one of the most protective things you can do for them.

Question 2

I'm scared that asking for help means losing my children. What do I do?

Accepted Answer

That fear keeps many mothers from reaching out, and it is understandable. But reaching for support is the opposite of failing your children, and there are UK services built around keeping mothers and children together, like Trevi's Jasmine Mother's Recovery. Your local family drug and alcohol service, or We Are With You, can talk it through with you confidentially, with no obligation.

Question 3

Are there rehabs where I can keep my children with me?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Some residential services are designed so mothers and children stay together while you recover, such as Trevi's Jasmine Mother's Recovery in Plymouth. Your local family drug and alcohol service can tell you what is available in your area.

Question 4

My children have been removed. Is recovery even for me?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Recovery is for you, whatever has happened and whatever happens next. The grief of being apart from your children is real, and the rooms hold women who have lived exactly this. Pause works with women who have had children removed, and your local family service can support you. You do not have to carry it alone.

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